Monday, February 7, 2011

Marriage Advice For Long-Term Love Relationships

Staying happily married for the long-term is can be difficult for the happiest of couples! This relationship help and marriage advice will make loving your partner easy.


Even the most happy, solid long-term love relationship needs the occasional marriage advice and spice. These marriage tips will make loving your partner easy and strengthen your "couple connection"...



Marriage Advice for Long-Term Love Relationships


1. Visualize Your Ideal Marriage

What kind of marriage do you want? Who do you have to be – how do you have to change – to be half of that marriage? Visualization isn’t just about training for marathons or doubling your income, it’s powerful and effective relationship help. Spend a few minutes a day thinking about your ideal marriage, and you'll remember how to love your spouse. Share your thoughts and hopes with your partner. You may be together in the same house, but miles apart emotionally. Visualization can bridge the gap.

2. Figure Out Your Role

If you're living like roommates and yet you're in love long-term, ask yourself when you forgot how to love your spouse. What would you do differently if you could do it over? Forget about how your spouse has disappointed you: how have you disappointed yourself in this relationship? With a little soul-searching, you can figure out how you can show more love, kindness, acceptance, and compassion…which may lead to more love from your partner.


3. Forgive and Forget

This isn't just a cliché; it's sound marriage advice. If you hold on to grudges or betrayals, you’re just perpetuating the damage. Maybe he messed up, maybe you did…but ruminating and not letting it go just makes things worse. Talking to a counselor or wise friend can help you remember how to love your spouse. Even better, tell your partner that you’re having trouble letting go of your bitterness or hurt. This relationship help involves learning to forgive and let go, so you can strengthen your relationship and love your partner more.

4. Learn Something New Together

Take a ballroom dance class or join a book club together. Do yoga or take a communication class at a local school or college. Not only will you learn a new activity or a new way to think, you’ll also learn something new about your partner. This bit of marriage advice can strengthen your relationship by giving you an adventure to enjoy together.

5. Remember What Was Once Obvious

When you first fell in love, you focused on your partner’s strengths. You loved his determination and melted at his compassion. You overlooked the weaknesses (possibly to the detriment of the relationship or your self-esteem!), and concentrated on all the fantastic qualities. The more you focus on his strengths, the more loving you’ll feel towards him. Think about why you were first attracted to him and be grateful for the good parts of your life together. This relationship help is about brushing away the annoyances. A caveat: if the “annoyances” are major problems such as abuse, criminal activity, or other evil behaviors, forget about his so-called strengths and figure out how to get help and get your life back on track!

6. Learn Different Ways to Express Your Love.
To learn to love your partner and strengthen your relationship, show your love in small ways throughout the day. For instance, knowing the best way to say "I love you" is good marriage advice for long-term love. To feel new love for your partner, try expressing your love in new, different ways -- because actions often lead to feelings.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Days...



It was a day you came and went 
Time stood still in my eyes
Beautiful creature I saw again,
An angel is sent, it's you my friend

Days pottering about, they were like before
My guardian angel, I think I die
My mind spun and went
Everything about you was there.

One day my soul was in flames
and very deep in my ventricle
I heard you say to me
"I think I might love you!"

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Die for love



I am ready to die, when the only issue 
Now in the spring of my life, old age or if it comes 
My life without you only pain, the world uninhabitable 
The field is just full of beautiful stone and dead flower 

Strangled dreams my fate is paved with bumpy journey 
While I live out my love is gone Well 
Days are tough for me to burn almost deficits 
You're only in my dreams that never ends 

I feel the smell, but did not see you anywhere You're a beautiful woman 
Where long-lived nature of today there are only weeds grow 
I'm not whole without you, you, who survived 
Valuable treasure in life than you could ask is not 

I'm afraid of tomorrow, perhaps because last time I see your face 
My soul dies, because it no longer endure the painful failure 
So I can die with him, it hurts, there is no turning back no more 
Before it even gets to watch as the mist of Hope
 

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

You are everything.....


I love you! I love you!
You are my sun and guiding light.
You're my star, you're my moon.
You're the sky of my life.
You're the beauty of my morning!
You're the smile to my day!
You're calm and gentle whiff of my evening.
You're the faith in tomorrow.
You're the beautiful sunrise and the sunset glow.
You're the magical breath and whisper of the wind.
You're the endless blue of the sea.
You're in me, inside the heart.
You're everything to me.
You're the one I love! Always! Forever! I love you!

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

You said I love you....


Dark days become sunny
Frigid days become warm,
Rainy days become cloudless
And lightning got wiped away from the storm.
Oceans sing,
Rocks cry out,
Mountains roar,
And tree branches shout.
The stars fall
Right out of the sky.
The moon winks
And the sun went dry.
All because you said one thing
All because you said it true
All because you made me smile
All because you said I love you.

Blind with love...



I am the meanest girl. There is nothing in me to get.
How can you be so mean to me? I'm really not fair!
How could I make something so bad? I see nothing,
What have I forgotten?
What have I done that I do not know? 
Why you pushed me down when I was struggling?
What have I done so badly? 
It is a question I often have to ask. 
Give me a chance, please, just listen. 
My life has not exactly been easy. I just feel closer and closer.
I thought I was tired of you, until the day you left me.
What have I done to deserve this? 
I really thought you were the right thing.
The truth is that I am in love with a lie;
I think of you every minute in each
I hope this soon passes, so it is a night where I actually sleep...

Monday, January 10, 2011

Being in love.....



My Love For You Grows in Each and everyday everythings way.
It Grows When You Look At Me, When you say my name.
It Grows When I hold you close at night 
and Can feel your heart Beating Against mine.
It Grows When Our Hands meet and Each of Our fingers 
lace together perfectly.
It Grows When I tickle you and help you Can, But laugh.
It Grows When you talk about us in the future, 
Because I Could not imagine it
with anyone else But you.
And wine, of all it Grows When you say I Love You.